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How to catch a cheating husband.

Anonymous
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I know my husband HAS cheated on me, and I know he will again. I just don't have any proof of a physical affair. I thought about making a fake profile and tricking him, but I think he's to smart for that... He's only ever gone after people he knows.. How do I catch him?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:12 AM
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TiffanyRose06
by Queso<3 on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:12 AM
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with a net
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:13 AM
Keylogger on computer?

Follow him?

Abby.N.Amys.Mom
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:13 AM
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If you know he will again, why are you with him?

And setting him up with a fake person to "make" him cheat is a recipe for disaster.

Leave him if you're that paranoid.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:15 AM

We only have one car (It's MY car, but he uses it for work) What's keylogger?

Quoting Anonymous:

Keylogger on computer?

Follow him?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:15 AM

I have to stay until I'm finished with school (One more year)

Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

If you know he will again, why are you with him?

And setting him up with a fake person to "make" him cheat is a recipe for disaster.

Leave him if you're that paranoid.


MissmeMissme
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:16 AM
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If you know he will again maybe you should not be with him. 

Or you should get a boyfriend? 

Abby.N.Amys.Mom
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:16 AM
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No, you don't HAVE to do anything.  You're making excuses.  But fine, if you want to live in misery, have at it.  But don't set him up because that's immature and will backfire on you.

Quoting Anonymous:

I have to stay until I'm finished with school (One more year)

Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

If you know he will again, why are you with him?

And setting him up with a fake person to "make" him cheat is a recipe for disaster.

Leave him if you're that paranoid.



Goodbye.BlueSky
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:16 AM

I caught my ex by having his passwords and setting up his messenger to archive his messages. I also looked in his phone. I never said a word about what I was finding, I just sat back and waited for him to go through with it.

That's the biggest thing...you have to act like you don't know anything. You have to go about life as if you have no idea...not confront him or about it or anything. If you do, he'll get better at hiding things. Look through whatever you can, take pics or screen shots or save it all somewhere.

Abby.N.Amys.Mom
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:17 AM

In some states it's illegal to use a keylogger on your spouse without their permission. 

Quoting Anonymous:

We only have one car (It's MY car, but he uses it for work) What's keylogger?

Quoting Anonymous:

Keylogger on computer?

Follow him?



Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:17 AM

No you don't. I hate that excuse. It IS an excuse. Many single moms go to school and work every day. Admit it...you are just scared to do it on your own.


Quoting Anonymous:

I have to stay until I'm finished with school (One more year)

Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

If you know he will again, why are you with him?

And setting him up with a fake person to "make" him cheat is a recipe for disaster.

Leave him if you're that paranoid.




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