I just made an appointment with a counselor that is in 2 hours. He deals with couples issues but the receptionist made it seem as if I should come to the first one on my own then the next one with him but its up to me. They won't have any other openings until the 15th. Not sure if I can wait that long to actually go with him. What was your experience like? Should I go first by myself and get how I'm feeling about the whole infidelity thing off my chest or should I just bring him now?