He is trying to make me lose it before I can leave.
l have a plan in motion to leave my husband
- Get a Job
- Save and hide the money I earn (easy enough he suck at money I can cook the books)
- Get enough to get an apt and a car
- one Saturday when he is working rent uhaul (because believe it or not everything in the apt is mine or gifted to me) and leave
But I think he has started to figure out that I am planing to leave him. He has always been mentally mean but the stuff he has been doing, well I think he is trying to put me in the hospital.
We only have one car and I had it yesterday to see my doctor. (I'm bipolar and I needed to get a refill on my pills) When he called me to come pick him he said something strange, now we have done this many time and there are only to places that I ever pick him up The Walmart 5 minutes away and the parking lot that I drop him off in. Well he told me to pick him up at the Chili's across from the Walmart. So I said "you want me to go to Chili's on Touhy, not Walmart" I said this 4 time just to make sure because Chili's is 20 minutes away in the opposite direction! But he kept saying yes. So I woke up my DD and got in the car. We leave and get a call from him "were are you?" "I just left, are we staying for dinner? hello?" he has already hung up. Start driving and get halfway there anther call "were are you! were you even at home?" me trying to be calm "I am passing Croname Now" he has already hung up.
I get there and call him and his phone is off fine I go in thinking he is at a table. Nope so I ask the hostess she said she said a man like that eat and left already.... I go outside and call again, he answers and said he did leave and is looking for me at the Walmart (there is another Walmart across the street from the Chili's) I will be honest I screamed into the phone "I'm here" . He said he was coming back so I waited 15 minutes with a hungry child (I had no money on me) his phone is still off. So I called left a message saying l was going home. But I did not I went to the Walmart call again then at this point pulled into a parking lot and started crying.
If I leave without him I am strong (I think?) but at the same time I am trying to last the next few months without getting hit. (I also have a job interview today that I think is a shoe in)
he then called me and I asked "were are you" him "I'm at home because you never showed up" Me starting a breakdown "ARE YOU F*CKING KIDDING ME!!" he hangs up and I start screaming and banging my head on the car window. (don't worry I called my mom and she calmed me down)
I get home (I have to feed my kid) and call when still outside and he NOW tells me he was outside the CHIPOTLE AT THE WALMART 5 MINUTES AWAY! (The Walmart 5 minutes away has a Chipotle outside it)
He said he made a "mistake" and his phone was "die" but I don't believe him. this was calculated to well, like the the second phone call when I said I was at the street Croname he claims he heard I was at "Tonys" (a grocery store near us) He is trying to drive me nuts, I know it.