My family lives far away and my husband and I hate his family (its a long story) so they don't see the kids. We have a third on the way and I feel like I would be happy just to have two dates a year. My kids are 6 and 1. I have no friends and my husbands friends are all single guys. We don't have anyone we trust and don't want to just hire someone we don't know and trust them with our kids. It sucks because sometimes we want to take the oldest to the movies but our son is too young so my husband and I take turns staying home with him. I haven't seen a movie with hubby in 3 years and haven't went out to dinner alone with him in about 2 years. What do you do to keep the spark when there is no sitter?