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Do you consider this to be a pedophile/sex offender -Edit in purple-

Posted by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:37 PM
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If an 18 year old is dating a 13 year old

If a 20 year old has sex with a 16 year old

and so on?


The reason I ask is because my cousin, and this other guy I know. Consider my SO to be a pedophile. I have been with him since I was 10 (for me that was the 7th grade) but we got serious when I was 13-14 years old (for me that's like the 10th-11th grade. ). I skipped grades so when I was in the 7th grade, he was in the 9th grade. He was my brother's best friend and I basically decided that he would be my boyfriend when I was 10. Nothing serious though. Then I went to the 10th grade and he got held back in the 11th grade (because he was sick a lot that year, not because he was a bad student). So we were a year apart in school. That is when it got serious (he was 17 about to turn 18 and I was 13).  We are 4 3/4 years apart (so basically 5 years)

By the time we actually had sex. I was 16 and he was 20. I was going off to college.  I don't consider him a pedophile. 

by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:37 PM
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yikesitsmindy
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:39 PM
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yes and no. I dont know. Any 13 yo having sex with an adult, yes. 15/16 and 20 is wrong but not pedophelia to me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:40 PM
When I was 13-14 I dated an 18 year old. At 16, I started having sex and my b/f at the time was 19 and turned 20 a few months aftef I turned 16.
AliKatAK47
by Meanie Pants on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:40 PM

The 13 year old isn't having sex with the 18 year old. They're just dating. 

Quoting yikesitsmindy:

yes and no. I dont know. Any 13 yo having sex with an adult, yes. 15/16 and 20 is wrong but not pedophelia to me.


JulyBabies
by Gold Member on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:41 PM
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Yes. I can not imagine what an 18 yr. old would want with a 13 yr. old, there has to be something wrong with that person. It's basically a college student with a jr. high school student, what could they possibly have in common?

CatFishMom
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:41 PM
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A thirteen year old shouldnt be dating period. Thats babysitting-yes, thats a sexual offender, and yes, twenty down to fifteen or sixteen as well. Pedophile, not necessarily.

yikesitsmindy
by on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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I find that hard to believe. What can 13 have in common with 18? I would not allow that shit as a parent.

Quoting AliKatAK47:

The 13 year old isn't having sex with the 18 year old. They're just dating. 

Quoting yikesitsmindy:

yes and no. I dont know. Any 13 yo having sex with an adult, yes. 15/16 and 20 is wrong but not pedophelia to me.



LizzieAnnesMom
by ☆Mrs.Winchester☆ on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:42 PM

No. 

weaveress
by Silver Member on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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anyone 13 should not be having sex much less with an adult. 16 to 18 if there isn't a six plus years age difference I don't see a problem with it.
eztwins
by Gold Member on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:42 PM
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I think the age range for 13 & 18 is too large I don't consider it pedophelia. I also don't agree with 15 & 20.
acrogodess
by Ruby Member on Jul. 3, 2013 at 10:43 PM
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Yes. 13 is too young to consent and 18 is old enough to know better.

15 is not legally old enough to consent. 16 with an 18 or 19 yr old, not at all because they are within age to be peers at school.
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