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snagged hubby's phone and...update 1, 2

Anonymous
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I posted a while ago about my husband being on swingers and singles sites while I was out of town. I didn't mention anything to him because I wanted to snoop in his phone (an old flip phone with a shitty browser)

I snagged it tonight because I couldn't take it anymore, always second guessing if he's really going where he says he is.

I looked at his browser history, and sure enough, there were searches for XXXXX (our town's name) fuck partners, and sites like yourbedormine.

Idk what to do. No evidence of actual cheating, but what the actual fuck?? Obviously, he wants to. How do you confront someone about something like this??

Update: in a few minutes, I will be talking to him about this. He is feeding the animals and coming back. I'm trying to get up the courage and plan my words, but all I feel is a pit in my stomach and my heart is racing. Wish me luck? I will update in a bit.

Update 2: I talked to him. He denied wanting to be with anyone else. He lied about the fuck partners search, and said he clicked on a popup on a swingers site. I had mentioned a swinger's club in ohio that I read about several months ago, and he thought I was interested in the lifestyle so he started checking out the sites. I called him on his lie about the local fuck partners search, and toldhim I knew and had proof he, himself, typed those words into a search bar. I told him I wasn't interested in having a conversation if he wasn't going to be open and honest with me. I ended the conversation by telling him that if he wants to have sex with someone else, he is free to do so as long as he is honest with me about it, and as long as he uses protection. He swore up and down he has never touched another woman since we started dating, and would never want anyone else, ever. He is upset because I do not believe him one bit. He apologized and acknowledged screwing up.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:23 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:25 AM
Don't know but here's a bump?
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:26 AM

How old is your husband?

Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:26 AM
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Um you can tell him or a subtle note like throwing his shit out the window would do.
eykelley
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:26 AM
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U just do. Sit him down. Twll him u found it and to explain himself. Tell.him its not appropraite and if he wanta his marriage it ends now!
KGreen75
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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You create a profile on the site he is a member of and searches, find his profile and contact him...set up a meeting and show up and busy his fucking ass, then file for divorce.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
37. Why?


Quoting Anonymous:

How old is your husband?


marinenonstop
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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Just ask him. Maybe he was on a porn site looking at videos and that came up as a pop up. Idk. All I know is if it bothers you, bring it up to him.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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Well I'm sure throwing his phone at his face will get the conversation rolling..
ladyfus
by Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 2:27 AM
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Just come out and tell him what you have found, he will try and deny every thing.....good luck.
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