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Lots of sadness and bad words in this post.

Posted by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:16 AM
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First off, in no way shape are my kids harmed. Their father was a good dad to them. I dont know how this happened...

I went throgh my husbands phone. We have been married 8 years, 2 boys and were trying for a girl.

I found child porn. Tons of it. I feel fucking sick just texting this. I called the police. He ran and now their is a warrant. I hope he dies. Gets fucked in jail and someone kills him. Ifeel so fucking sick and stupid.

How could I not have known? What if hr had hurt my boys? What uf we had a girl and he had hurt her. I might be preg as of now. What tge fuck am I suppossed to do?

I am a sahm. Everything is in his name. When I get a job I wont be able to afford it. There is no money. Fucker took everything and ran like a stupid pervert fuckwad.

I hate him. I feel do sick and stupid and lost
idk what to do. I have family two hrs from me.
What do i tell my boys? What do i do? How am i gonna handle this?

I plan on selling all his shit. But other than that...i am lost. I fucking hate him.
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l0nely
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:18 AM
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:( bump. Not sure what to say other than the typical "sorry you're going through that"
LovelyCorrupt
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:19 AM
Can't believe u didn't go anon. That's heavy shit.

What made u go thru his phone?
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spunknsass
by Silver Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:20 AM
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Wow. i'm so sorry. Make sure you get him as far away from your kids as possible. You'll be able to get on your feet, just hang in there. And definitely sell all of his shit.

thefiregoddess
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:20 AM
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Sell everything. File for divorce and custody NOW. and child support.

Take off.. change your address. Get into therapy and get your kids into therapy.

See if your state has a address confidentiality program.

Eta : go get on assistance. Take a copy of the police report and warrant and divOrce paperwork. Get in school and ask for work study. Then get another job.
You tell your children the basics right now. Dad did some bad things, got in trouble and they won't be seeing him for a while.

Ask the therapist how to extend this further.

Make sure you consult the police before selling anything they may want some for evidence.
jesistar6910
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:20 AM
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Wow. That's just...wow.

I am sorry that he turned out to be a really sick human being. I can't imagine what it must be like for you. 

What you need to do for your sons is love them. Be there for them. Answer their questions as truthfully as possible (without graphics, of course). Don't tell them you wish their father would die and all that - that's the last thing they need to hear. Simply let them know, dad did a bad thing, and now he has to face the consequences for it, because of that he will not be coming home. 

It is probably not going to be easy, but keep your head up for those boys - they are going to need YOU to teach them how to be real men. Good luck to you, doll.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:20 AM
Don't have any advice just my sympathy. Hugs. :( And a bump.
TrouserMouse
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:21 AM
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You will get through it. Moms are strong. You would be better off living in a box than being around someone like that.
paganmommy4
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:22 AM
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MESSAGE ME PLEASE

THEY ARE THAT GOOD. its not your fault

Cbreland07
by Ruby Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:23 AM
I'm so sorry :(.. File immediately!!
PikachuLuver
by on Jul. 4, 2013 at 3:23 AM
No reason to be anon. I really need help.

He had cracked the screen and wanted me to take it to sprint. I never snoop. I wish I did


Quoting LovelyCorrupt:

Can't believe u didn't go anon. That's heavy shit.



What made u go thru his phone?

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