S/O...When you host a cookout, do you micromanage what people put on their plates?
Of course, the people I know aren't jerks. If we have steak, it is rare for someone to eat an entire one to themselves, maybe a few of the men. Most people will eat half or less and maybe have a hot dog or something. We are "a little bit of everything" people. If kids want steak, I often see parents just give them a small portion of their own. No big deal.
I thought this was normal?