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A man slapped my car and the cop lied threatened me!! What do I do need advice ASAP long

Anonymous
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What do I do?!!

I left to pick up my husband. I made a left onto a street. My car was fully turned onto the street. There was a camper on the side a few feet up and a white car in the middle of the street so I was going towards him when he moved onto his side all pissed off he slaps my mirror hard and reaches into my open window. I slammed on my brakes and he on his. He said "YOU FUCKING BITCH!!" I said "YOU SLAPPED MY CAR!!" He pulls over I get out and take his license plate and car model down while he said "I'm gunna take are of u now bitch" and is on his phone. I said " im going to the police station!!" I wasn't going to wait around for an angry dude who slapped my mirror on the phone with god knows who.

I go to the police. I explained it. He said go back now there's a cop now because he said u hit him. I was like WHAT?!!! So I go back to the accident. Mind u none of the people who were out then were around before

The cop comes to my car. I said hi. I live down the street. I came up the street and made a left. I was on the side of this camper coming up through the street while he was coming towards me in the middle of both lanes. So te cop says "you were behind the camper or on the side" I said on the side. He repeated back to me "so you came up this street made a left then was riding on this street saw the car in the middle okay go on" I said well he moved to his side and slapped my mirror with his hand "no he didn't" said the cop. I said excuse me?? "No u hit him." I said how there's no marks on my car!! "Yes there is and he has scuffs on his" I said how do u know they match up he sAid "I know how to do my job don't you tell me ok?" I said no either get an insurance adjuster out here to assess the damage this is ridiculous. I want my mirror finger printed to prove. He said "OH COME ON NO ONE IS FINGER PRINTING HERE" I said "he slapped my car he used physical violence on my car!!" He said we have witnesses against u. I said WHAT?! There was no one around!! He goes over knocks on the door. I rolled down my window to listen. A girl comes out says the witness is coming. This girl pulls up in a bathing suit all wet and said I hit him bla bla bla...he's in a bathing suit all wet I know this house they don't have a pool my friend lived there a year or two back. She was swimming somewhere when it happened. I saw his car there at that house recently I think he knows the people and called them to get his ass off the hook.. The officer comes over and says "SO YOU LIE" I said what?! "She said u made a left on this street when u said u were going straight." I said "I TOLD U I MADE A LEFT!!" He says "you don't remember telling me u went straight" I said "you don't remember ASKING me if I was behind this camper when I turned and clarifying I was on the side?" He said "nope I don't know what you're talking about I never said that" I looked at him in shock. He says u both have damages. I said these scratches I had before. I took my car to an auto body shop last week they took pics u can ask to see them and see the same marks. These weren't from him. And how do u know he didn't make the marks he said. DON'T TELL ME HOW TO DO MY JOB UR A LIAR UR AT FAULT IF U WANNA PURSUE THIS WE WILL MAKE A REPORT RIGHT HERE AS U AS AT FAULT AND U WILL BE CHARGED WITH LEAVING THE SCENE OF AN ACCIDENT NOW WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO. I asked the other option he said no parties file but u have a verbal warning. I said for what? He said IF U THINK UR GOING TO GO TO THE POLICE STATION AND MAKE A REPORT I WILL HAVE U CHARGED WITH LEAVING AN ACCIDENT. I said ok forget it then. He handed me my license and reg. and waited for me to leave then kept passing me and stopping ahead.

I wasn't loud with him. I was nice and never got out of my car or called out. Idk what to do. I'm Muslim I feel he either know the guy or is fucking racist. I forgot to mention. After the girls said they saw me hit him I said if there was a collision te impact would've been between the cars and they said they were standing over there how can they have seen anything. He said you're a liar an it doesn't matter at this point

Omgggg I'm in years I'm shaking help pls
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 7:49 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:00 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:00 PM
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Jessy613
by Diamond Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:01 PM
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What a stupid post...

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:04 PM
???


Quoting Jessy613:

What a stupid post...


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:06 PM
Sounds like the cop was a friend if his
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:06 PM
I'm a Muslim in full garb on Fourth of July I should've fuckin known better
Angelicembrace
by The Dorkfish on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:08 PM
im sorry :(. you could persure this and file a complaint against the cop, but it probably wpuldnt turn out pretty.
kailu1835
by Platinum Member on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:09 PM
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Go to the police station and make a report. Write an affidavit of what actually happened and take it in with you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:09 PM

I would file a complaint.  Do you have the officers name?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 4, 2013 at 8:10 PM
But he threatened me saying if I do he'll charge me with leaving the scene of the accident. Although I made it clear I wa scared I had my infant in the car he said I don't care I'm warning u if u go to the police station I will charge u.


Quoting kailu1835:

Go to the police station and make a report. Write an affidavit of what actually happened and take it in with you.

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