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Would you get rid of him? *edit in red*

Anonymous
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If your significant other was severely allergic to your pet that you had owned for many years, and there was absolutely no way the two could live in a home together (indoor animal), would you get rid of the pet.....or break up with the significant other?  Say this significant other was not just a short term thing, but your fiance, whom you planned to spend the rest of your life with, but the pet was the only thing holding you back. Also say that the allergy cannot be cured by any methods like benadryl etc.  WWYD?

*I am the allergic one. I was receiving allergy shots a year before meeting him. He knew of my allergy on the first date. I am now allergic to the allergy shot and must stop them. OTC drugs knock me out, so they are out of question. Allergy is epi-pen severe* 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:38 AM
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HousewifeNina
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:39 AM
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People who think animals are more important than people have serious issues.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:40 AM

I would pick my pet.

stephyk
by Stephanie on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:40 AM
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I would not get rid of my pet.
MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:41 AM
The animal would go.
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Lzabierek
by Bronze Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:42 AM
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I love my dogs so i don't think I could ever get rid of them. But I would have looked at the situation when I would have first started dating the person. I mean if you are engaged you obviously knew the WHOLE time dating that something was happening.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:42 AM
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If he were allergic to dogs...I wouldn't have gone out with him in the first place

momof2boy2girl
by Valerie on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:42 AM
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I wouldn't even consider.dating someone that did not like or could not be around animals. I know people are more important, but I love my pets. I took my old lab every where with me. If Vince hadn't likes him or been able to be around him, we would not be together.
xoxRachelxox
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:43 AM

I'd get rid of my pet.

missmamaof4
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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why is this even a question ??

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2Sparrows4ever
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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How do you get that far in a relationship without already taking the pet into consideration?
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