I'm jealous of my sister. she just found out today that she is pregnant with her third. she has a 2yo and a 10mo. she did not even what them and here she is having a third. i have been trying for years to start a family of my own with no luck. she has no job and no desire to get one. she sleeps most of the day. dh works full time while i finish school. i myself work from home(medical coding and billing) outside of my school time. we have the money, time and space for a child. we start fertility testing in September depending on that we will start treatments afterwards. i just don't understand why mother nature picks people whom cant afford children and/or ones who never wanted them to have children and yet ones whom could give them what they need, can afford them and very much want them to not have children.