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im just going to say it and i dont give a damn

Anonymous
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I'm jealous of my sister. she just found out today that she is pregnant with her third. she has a 2yo and a 10mo. she did not even what them and here she is having a third. i have been trying for years to start a family of my own with no luck. she has no job and no desire to get one. she sleeps most of the day. dh works full time while i finish school. i myself work from home(medical coding and billing) outside of my school time. we have the money, time and space for a child. we start fertility testing in September depending on that we will start treatments afterwards. i just don't understand why mother nature picks people whom cant afford children and/or ones who never wanted them to have children and yet ones whom could give them what they need, can afford them and very much want them to not have children.

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:32 PM
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Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:34 PM
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With that attitude you'll never get pregnant
Cuddlyknuckle
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:35 PM
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I'm sorry. I hope that you get your precious baby soon. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:35 PM
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I'm sorry and I understand how you feel.

t1gger143
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:36 PM
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I remember feeling that way when we were trying. It sucks, but you need to focus on you and not why other people are doing. Fertility issues are heart breaking enough without focusing in who is pregnant.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:36 PM
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If you don't have any children why are you on CafeMom???

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:37 PM
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 i know im just upset, jealous and a little down. it would not be so bad if she had not rubbed it in my face. and if she would stop rubbing it in. she knows we have been trying for almost 4 years


Quoting Elle.tea.22:

With that attitude you'll never get pregnant


 

HanaJoii
by Silver Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:38 PM
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Does she take care of her kids. It doesn't matter if she wanted them or not, the most important thing is if she is caring for them. 

If it was ment to be it will be. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:38 PM
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 for the ttc group that is why


Quoting Anonymous:

If you don't have any children why are you on CafeMom???


 

Benjamins-mama
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:38 PM

you stressing over your sister having a baby isn't going to help things.    hope everything works out and you get that baby you want

SRUsarahSC
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 12:39 PM
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Site has a very active, supportive, and informative TTC group.


Quoting Anonymous:

If you don't have any children why are you on CafeMom???



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