Telling SOs father???? scared ( why he doesn't like me is added)
A little back story, his dad would have an issue if he knew we were dating. My kids dad already had a hissy fit about it because he is who I left him for years ago, I tried again with my sons dad, but then ultimately here I am back with who I actually want to be with. His dad thinks he wrecked my relationship with my ex, but really, his dad doesn't know I broke up with him for a while before I got with his son, so anyway, long story short, his dad doesn't know we have been together nearly a year. He's mustering up the courage to tell him because I won't let us move forward until he does. He wants to move together but, no, not letting it happen until his dad is okay with it. or at least aware .
We've been officially together about a year, but prior to that all of this drama where I left my ex and then went to him happened near 3 years ago. We just never forgot about each other, waited and waited and waited. Something in this world brought us back to each other and it's been great.
Not saying we're perfect, like one of those couples who never argue or get on each others nerves, but this is the biggest road block
Im afraid of his dad or I would say LETS go tell him, because he thinks what I told you above so his view on me isn't great.
Long story short part included:::
I have known him and his dad for a long time. He used to date a close family friend. Before I even hung out with SO I used to double date with my god mother and him, with me and my ex. My ex and I had a baby. When I got pregnant ex started being abusive so I left him when he sent me to the hospital when my son was only 6 weeks. He does not know those details but that is what happened. So he thinks that his son made me leave him because back before and even while I was pregnant my god mom would tell me that his dad would tell him that he knew how he was looking at me and that better quit because he doesn't want his son to be a homewrecker. His dad even came to my babyshower and evrything, I mean, we were close/
so it all boils down to is he thinks his son is a homewrecker, but he just doesn't know the whole story. And I imagine he views me as kind of a bad woman for leaving my sons dad as well./