it does nothing. some people are just dealt a shitty hand, and it isnt going to change by being positive. people wanting change, and trying so hard, just to be repeatedly nocked down. at this point thinking positive is as pointless as praying. you can do it all day every day and it doesnt happen. nothing changes. things get worse. but oh, then theres the classic " you have to be patient!'
6 months aint patient enough? a year? years?
of unchanging bullshit.