Long story short my dd* is 16 and has been "dating" this guy behind my back. He is 21. The first time I found out I told my daughter she could not see him. The second time I caught them together I talk to the guys parents letting them know I was not okay with it at all. The third time I found out when she skipped school and I could not find her all day. I went to his house and made it very clear to him and his parents that if I found them together one more time I would press charges. Well I found him sneaking into my house while I was supposed to be sleeping. I called the police and they took him away. I am meeting with my attorney to see what options I have and what process I will have to go through.
UPDATE: My dd and I had our first heart to heart last night. It started off with her bawling my eyes out and giving me a big hug. I just sat there holding her. She told me that she was so sorry and she can not believe what mistakes she made. She even told me that she didn't even know what there was about him that made her so attracted to him and that she didnt even miss him. I told her we all make mistakes. We are going to set up a counseling appointment for the both of us and then for her alone. She told me that she understand why I did it and that she is sorry. It broke my heart to see her that way but I am glad she has really been able to think things through.. We start a volunteer position at the Humane society tomorrow morning where we will clean out cages.. We now we back to our "normal" relationship and I hope it stays that way