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Should I just leave it alone???

Anonymous
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Before SO and I became a couple (we were just talking at the time), he told me that there was a girl that he had a crush on but wasn't sure she liked him "like that"....no need to get in to how that coversation came up.

Well, we're now living together and expecting a baby in November and I really haven't thought much about that conversation from that night, until the other day and now I find myself curious who the chick is that he had a crush on and it's because we're in a serious relationship, expecting a baby together and getting ready to buy a house together and I kinda wanna know if this is someone he's around every day or if he even still talks to her and how they knew/know one another.

Would you ask or would you just leave it alone?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:25 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:28 PM
Ask and you shall receive
JulyBabies
by Gold Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:28 PM

My husband and I have a lot of conversations about our past, it's natural to be curious and as long as you are not grilling him about it, I think it's a fine thing to do.

Mamasgirl524
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:29 PM
Yessssss!

Quoting Anonymous:

Ask and you shall receive
3boysngirl
by Silver Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:29 PM
I would
tinakinakins
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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Ignorance is bliss momma. Leave it alone.

eblstanford03
by on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:30 PM

I would ask. Communication and honesty are vital for a relationship to thrive.

almondpigeon
by Ruby Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:30 PM

i think the healthy thing would be to let it go.  he loves you, blah, blah, blah.  personally, i wouldn't be able to let it go and i would have to know who it is.

12345abcde54321
by Platinum Member on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:32 PM

i wouldn't ask. sounds like old news to me.. who cares?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Went thru simular with df, we talked about it & it took alot of weight off my chest. I would ask.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 5, 2013 at 10:33 PM
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 Hahaha good answer


Quoting almondpigeon:

i think the healthy thing would be to let it go.  he loves you, blah, blah, blah.  personally, i wouldn't be able to let it go and i would have to know who it is.


 

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