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support needed please :(

Anonymous
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Im so sad right now. Long story short.. dh looking at porn repeatedly after he knows how much it hurts my feelings.. i use to not care a long time ago when we werent married.. but now he started again and it hurts a lot. It hurts more that he knows it hurts and still does it. I view it as cheating...its another naked girl!!! I just saw that he looked at it yesterday after i got really upset and talked to hin about it (bc he did it the previous night too) and he looked at it all day while i was gone.. while he said he was going to think about what i said... i guess he was thinking about the porn... anyway i am tired of feeling hurt and betrayed.. tomorrow its me or the porn :( ... im so sad sorry for the run on vent.. im mobile and very upset..
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 7, 2013 at 4:58 AM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:01 AM

Turn the tables on him......Start looking at naked men.............

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:01 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:01 AM

I'm sorry , I feel it's cheating also . Get ready a lot of women think its not and will talk down to you . It can be a real addiction . 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:02 AM
I threatened that... he didnt care..


Quoting Sassy762:

Turn the tables on him......Start looking at naked men.............


Snakecharm
by Platinum Member on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:03 AM
If he's got an addiction... Like looks daily then he needs help. If he looks at it once a week or something then no biggie, let him get his jollies off. Put a blocker on your home Internet if it bothers you.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:04 AM

Porn has become a problem in recent years. Seeing as you can get it in the palm of your hand as opposed to the magazine under the mattress routine. If you want to continue the relationship I suggest going to marriage counseling where the therapist specializes in porn addiction.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:04 AM
Yeah im ready for them. They will get ignored. Althouh i respect their opinion, but this is mine. And i would hope the same respect although i probably wont get it.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry , I feel it's cheating also . Get ready a lot of women think its not and will talk down to you . It can be a real addiction . 


Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:04 AM

Don't threaten to do it...DO IT

He will care when you actually do it

Quoting Anonymous:

I threatened that... he didnt care..


Quoting Sassy762:

Turn the tables on him......Start looking at naked men.............



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:04 AM
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Here is how my SO put it. "I'm a dude. We like sex, like having it, thinking about it, looking at it. Doesn't even have to be a hot chic we are just wired that way. Doesn't mean we want to cheat, or even that we are dissatisfied we are just dudes and like to look at naked stuff. Period."

I think you're over reacting. He should be allowed private time, thoughts and interests....
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 7, 2013 at 5:05 AM
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My hubby used to be the same way. I know the problem was my own insecurity so we came to an agreement. If he's going to look then he has to cover his tracks. If I don't know about it we're good.
We've changed since and I don't mind it in small quantities now, plus we watch together sometimes.
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