my husband and i have one kid. hes 12 years old. i havent seen my husband except once in 10 years. he left when our son was 2. yes our son is his and he knows this. hes never paid ANY child support.
i cant find him now to file for divorce and cant afford the fees they want to track him down.
im moving across country (from MO to CA) and am not asking him for permission or telling him, because obivously i cant.
once we get settled in CA if he finds out can he make us move back here since we are married? or because we've been separated for 10 years he will just have to give me a divorce if i can find him?