Last year my bil passed away. He was an alcoholic who couldnt hold a job and became a transient. When he passed , my dh & I decided to make sure his children had a proper goodbye to their father.
So we got the family together , we all pitched in some money and I put together a memorial service at my church for my bil, well for his kids. His body was donated to science. His body would be cremated , and sent to the family.
Yesterday my mil calls my dh ( he hasnt talked to her in a yr). Well as shes babbling , she says the words "Oh and Tommy's still in the garage" My dh is all WHAT??
Apparently because there wasnt enough money collected and I didnt take care of it for them, they have not seen fit to bury the man or find a place for his ashes. So he was stuffed in the back of my sil's ( my dh's sister) garage a yr ago and is still there.
WTF? Who does that? My dh's stupid family does I guess.