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I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?

by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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silverdawn99
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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No he asked if you would have sex
He probably needed some release
And at least it was just porn
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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i think id be upset but at the same time would he be mad if he was sick or something and you went and used a vibrator?... it doesnt mean he doesnt care. maybe he didnt know how much pain you were in.

MaNdYbEaR2010
by *Manda* on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:47 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you shouldn't feel upset. We're women. Women are emotional creatures. I'm just saying I could understand why he started watching porn.

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs




Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:

Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?

It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new.

Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.

Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.



 

ajdahd13
by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM

Eh whatever. Let him have his release. I wouldn't be upset. 

yorkiemaz
by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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yeah u have a right to be pissed off hun. They are selfish men only think about themselfs!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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He has needs also

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs




Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:

Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?

It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new.

Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.

Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.



 

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM

 i didin't snap at him just told him i was cramping and felt dizzy


Quoting Anonymous:

Did you snap at him? Did he know you were in pain at that moment?
He probably felt rejected.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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Porn along with sex would be the last things on my husbands mind.
laranadtony
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:48 AM
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My ex husband would have went next door and fucked the neighbor. I would rather him have watched porn.

It is all a matter of perspective.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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Her needs take priority. I'm so glad my husband put mine and our child's needs above his own.

Quoting Anonymous:He has needs also

Quoting momto2crazykids: i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs

Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new. Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.

 
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