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I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?

by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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ajdahd13
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:54 AM
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Then you should be going to the ER.... Not laying in bed complaining. 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 i didin't say i was dying but with two major bleeds cramping in my book means trouble and he should be wise enough to know that


Quoting ajdahd13:

I'm not Anon, but I missed the part where you were dying...... You're pregnant, not dying of the Plauge. And he went to jack off, not to go get a prosititute. Let him have his 10 minutes. 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 are you really saying that getting off was more important than me and the baby?


Quoting Anonymous:

No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.







Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:54 AM

well then id say you are allowed to be angry with him. thats selfish of him.

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 lol i'm not allowed to masterbate, once i shut the door and locked it and he got so pissed accusing me of masturbating so he isn't really being fair


Quoting Anonymous:

i think id be upset but at the same time would he be mad if he was sick or something and you went and used a vibrator?... it doesnt mean he doesnt care. maybe he didnt know how much pain you were in.




Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:54 AM
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You being in pregnant and uncomfortable means he has to walk around with a boner to hang towels off of? At least he didn't go get laid elsewhere.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:54 AM
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I'm sorry but if your pregnant wife is cramping and dizzy you're an asshole for going to jerk off.

Quoting Anonymous:

So his needs get swept under the carpet? He was just watching porn. Not having an affair



Quoting Anonymous:

Her needs take priority. I'm so glad my husband put mine and our child's needs above his own.





Quoting Anonymous:He has needs also





Quoting momto2crazykids: i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs





Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new. Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.





 
momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:55 AM
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 lol his needs need to take a backseat for a minute, you think i don't have needs too? but i have to be mature about it and think whats best for the baby, but hell whats good for geese is good for the gander, i should just go with my needs and say screw the baby


Quoting Anonymous:

So his needs get swept under the carpet? He was just watching porn. Not having an affair

Quoting Anonymous:

Her needs take priority. I'm so glad my husband put mine and our child's needs above his own.



Quoting Anonymous:He has needs also



Quoting momto2crazykids: i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs



Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new. Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.



 


 

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:55 AM
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 thank you mama


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry but if your pregnant wife is cramping and dizzy you're an asshole for going to jerk off.

Quoting Anonymous:

So his needs get swept under the carpet? He was just watching porn. Not having an affair



Quoting Anonymous:

Her needs take priority. I'm so glad my husband put mine and our child's needs above his own.





Quoting Anonymous:He has needs also





Quoting momto2crazykids: i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs





Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new. Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.





 


 

EarlGrayHot
by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:56 AM
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What a jerk.

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:56 AM
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 this should be a partnership not a me me me thing


Quoting Elle.tea.22:

You being in pregnant and uncomfortable means he has to walk around with a boner to hang towels off of? At least he didn't go get laid elsewhere.


 

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:57 AM

 

I know right?

Quoting Anonymous:

well then id say you are allowed to be angry with him. thats selfish of him.

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 lol i'm not allowed to masterbate, once i shut the door and locked it and he got so pissed accusing me of masturbating so he isn't really being fair

 

Quoting Anonymous:

i think id be upset but at the same time would he be mad if he was sick or something and you went and used a vibrator?... it doesnt mean he doesnt care. maybe he didnt know how much pain you were in.

 

 



 

garnet83
by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:59 AM
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If for some reason I denied Dh (which has NEVER happened and probably never will) I wouldn't be mad. The man has needs. If I don't meet them, I'd be stupid to be surprised if they get met another way.

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