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I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?

by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:00 AM
Sex IS a me thing! Both are in it to get off :P

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 this should be a partnership not a me me me thing




Quoting Elle.tea.22:

You being in pregnant and uncomfortable means he has to walk around with a boner to hang towels off of? At least he didn't go get laid elsewhere.



 

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:02 AM

I was waiting to see if the cramping stopped, if it didin't then hell yes i would go to the hospital, when i had my placentia abrevia before, the hospital couldn't do anything but let it run its course, so why go running to the hospital right away, as the father of my child i think he should have laid in bed with me comforting me not run off and watch porn lol next time he is sick i'm doing just this and seeing how he likes it


Quoting ajdahd13:

Then you should be going to the ER.... Not laying in bed complaining. 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 i didin't say i was dying but with two major bleeds cramping in my book means trouble and he should be wise enough to know that

 

Quoting ajdahd13:

I'm not Anon, but I missed the part where you were dying...... You're pregnant, not dying of the Plauge. And he went to jack off, not to go get a prosititute. Let him have his 10 minutes. 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 are you really saying that getting off was more important than me and the baby?

 

Quoting Anonymous:

No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.

 

 


 

 



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:04 AM
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Well...we're one and the same, so...


Quoting Anonymous:

Like an animal.  SMH



Quoting Anonymous:

No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.





momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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 not being a bitch, but you would still have sex with your husband if you were put on bed rest and he tried to get some from you? sometimes its ok to say no especially if your childs life could be in danger


Quoting garnet83:

If for some reason I denied Dh (which has NEVER happened and probably never will) I wouldn't be mad. The man has needs. If I don't meet them, I'd be stupid to be surprised if they get met another way.


 

SnowWhieQueen
by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:06 AM

men are selfish...they think about themselves first..

momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:07 AM
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 so damn true, i just wish i could be more like them


Quoting SnowWhieQueen:

men are selfish...they think about themselves first..


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:07 AM
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Is the baby in trouble? No. You are just bitching that he is getting off while watching porn. I went thru the same thing with my dh. I bled thru my pregnancies. Babies was not in trouble. I did not mind him watching porn. He was happy and I was happy. You want him to be miserable along side you and why?

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 lol his needs need to take a backseat for a minute, you think i don't have needs too? but i have to be mature about it and think whats best for the baby, but hell whats good for geese is good for the gander, i should just go with my needs and say screw the baby




Quoting Anonymous:

So his needs get swept under the carpet? He was just watching porn. Not having an affair


Quoting Anonymous:

Her needs take priority. I'm so glad my husband put mine and our child's needs above his own.



Quoting Anonymous:He has needs also



Quoting momto2crazykids: i've had two bleeds during my pregnancy along with cysts, he knew i was in pain because i told him when he was trying to get some sex, i'm hurt because he should have been concerned for me and the unborn baby not his needs



Quoting MaNdYbEaR2010:Did he know you we're in pain? Are you in pain often?It really depends. If your norm is in pain, I can see why he'd kind of shrug it off. Man has needs and the pain thing is nothing new. Same if he didn't realize you were in pain.Now if he knew and its a rare occurrence, yes, I'd be upset.



 



 

Cbreland07
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:07 AM
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Don't you know that men on here are no better than animals and have needs that must be met at that moment, and its your fault if he seeks to meet them some other way. I would be mad, and I would have gone and stuck my big ole belly in front of the screen.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:08 AM
The time away from comforting you in bed is the equivalent of taking an extra-long dump.


Quoting momto2crazykids:

I was waiting to see if the cramping stopped, if it didin't then hell yes i would go to the hospital, when i had my placentia abrevia before, the hospital couldn't do anything but let it run its course, so why go running to the hospital right away, as the father of my child i think he should have laid in bed with me comforting me not run off and watch porn lol next time he is sick i'm doing just this and seeing how he likes it




Quoting ajdahd13:


Then you should be going to the ER.... Not laying in bed complaining. 


Quoting momto2crazykids:


 i didin't say i was dying but with two major bleeds cramping in my book means trouble and he should be wise enough to know that


 


Quoting ajdahd13:


I'm not Anon, but I missed the part where you were dying...... You're pregnant, not dying of the Plauge. And he went to jack off, not to go get a prosititute. Let him have his 10 minutes. 


Quoting momto2crazykids:


 are you really saying that getting off was more important than me and the baby?


 


Quoting Anonymous:

No reason to be mad. He needed to get off.

 


 




 


 






 


Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Jul. 8, 2013 at 10:08 AM
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Men? Just say people. This isn't just a men issue

Quoting Cbreland07:

Don't you know that men on here are no better than animals and have needs that must be met at that moment, and its your fault if he seeks to meet them some other way. I would be mad, and I would have gone and stuck my big ole belly in front of the screen.
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