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I'm pregnant and am having somewhat of a difficult pregnancy, last night i was having pain and pressure and my dh comes into the room and asks if we could have sex, i told him do you really want to chance it? so he gets up, shuts the door and when i get up a little later he is watching porn, now i know that porn isn't really a big deal but i got hurt and pissed and was like shouldn't you be concerned about how i'm feeling instead of watching porn? should i be mad or just be like whatever?

by on Jul. 8, 2013 at 9:40 AM
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momto2crazykids
by Silver Member on Jul. 15, 2013 at 2:01 AM

 my brother is in his early 50s but he looks really good for his age since he is always at the gym, anyways his wife has a lot of emotional issues and has to take a bunch of antidepressants which kills the sex drive so i know he isn't getting it that much and he has told me about the women that hit on him and he always says my wife dosen't deserve that and they even go as far as saying well your wife won't find out and he says well i will know and wouldn't be able to live with myself so there are good men out there they are just hard to find


Quoting massconfusion14:

 I'm 27, some would consider that old and some would say young... BUT I believe life is about family and careers, but most of the guys I meet disagree, they all just want to talk about sex. My dd's father is 33 and he still thinks that way (hence why we are not together). I need to meet men like you speak of (if they really do exist lol)

 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 what i meant by asking if you were young is that life isn't about sex, its about family, careers, and a mortgage, a mature older woman and man realize this, sex is still important but family and the other things i mentioned are more important than busting a nut

 

Quoting massconfusion14:

 Is being young a bad thing? And if you don't put out, a man will eventually get tired of it and seek sex elsewhere. I'm not saying you should go screw him because you can't.. but at least he isn't resorting to it..

 

Quoting momto2crazykids:

 lol i find it so funny that this response has been everyone's favorite saying at least he didin't go fuck someone else, c'mon ladies don't sell yourself short, a man that is a cheater will cheat regardless of how much you put out, and a man that dosen't cheat will NOT cheat regardless of how many times you don't put out, i bet you are a young woman to have this kind of thoughts

 

Quoting Anonymous:

He wanted sex, you COULDN'T give it to him... at least he didn't go out and fuck someone else..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

theladyshy
by on Jan. 23, 2014 at 8:47 AM
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If porn isn't "really that big of a deal" then why were you hurt.  Because he couldn't empathize with your pain? He's a man they don't often work that way. They don't think. They don't talk. They act.  He saw his rager as an issue and took care of it. Just be happy that he wasn't jacking it with a web cam girl or made a visit to the neighbors. It took two to make the kid so BOTH of your feelings deserve to be validated. You don't become the queen of Sheba just because you are pregnant. His feelings and pains matter just as much as yours. Talk to you husband. Go to the library and get this book. "The proper care and feeding of husbands" Once you understand men and their processes I think you will see this as a minor offense. Good luck.

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