a woman in a town near by went missing last week, and they just found her remains in the woods in another smaller town. when the news came on the TV i was sad about it. her death was ruled a homicide.
i was talking to my husband about it and i said "its so sad, i feel so bad for her kids & grand kids"
and my husband said "it is what it is".. i was so anrgy. and i didnt even know the woman.
my husband is not a heartless man but i was floored by this. i explained that i cared in a sence that its very sad and i think of my own mother and how sad i and my children would be. and he said "you think too deeply into things"