Now to my question. Is it wrong that I don't want to cook some days? Does it make me a bad parent or gf? Or is it something I have to do because I am a mother and I have a family?
My bf always argues with me about it saying to suck it up because I'm a mom and I have to do it. Yes I know my bf is an asshole and he knows it as well so spare the lectures and trash talking.
ETA: Let me correct myself. When I say argue its more like a debate. His views are different and old school. he thinks every womans job is to cook clean and take care of the children. What he doesn't like is that I'm the total opposite. I don't think its all on the woman but 50/50.