He scanned her friends list but so far there was only 6yr old sister, grandma, mom, aunt and uncle. The profile was less than an hour old. Her age was portrayed as 27! Had a few activities, movies, music and such listed. Of the 20 odd pics uploaded so far, all but a couple were in normal clothes. The rest were in bathing suits.
And the profile is public, not one ounce of privacy settings.
Dh called bm at once. He asked why she had a FB. She said bc sd wanted one.
He asked why she allowed it. Because she didn't see why not.
He asked why it was public. Bc there is no need to NOT have it private, there's no one that's going to harass her or anything.
He told her that he didn't want her to have one. Mom said "tough shit, I'm her mom and what I say goes. You have no say in this".
He asked for the password to monitor it. She said "nope, I don't have it anyway, SD picked it and I'm going to respect her privacy."
He asked that she at least make it a private profile and change the profile pic to something less revealing. Her reply "why? It's an adorable pic of the girls. I love it."
At this point dh is PISSED. seeing what was about to erupt I took the phone and tried to reason with her with about at least the profile pic and privacy, no go. Normally she will work through me on something like this. But not last night apparently.
Can dh report this profile? Since she's a minor and not allowed technically to have a FB?