*ETA* I know I will be bashed to hell for this! but I am legit looking for diff opinions *seperated boyfriend*
So I have been dating a man that is married but separated now for a yr and a half. They were separated for a year when me and him started dating.
I know I was stupid for even getting involved, but I did. I do love him to bits and I don't want to hurt him...which is half of my concern in this. We have been together 5-6 months now.
We have talked here and there about the future in general he would like to get remarried someday and have kids, I would like to be married someday and undecided on more children at the moment. Never directly said it was something we planned with each other...
I have said something about his divorce and he just kinda gets mad...its been a year and a half as I said that they have been separated and while I am in no rush for marriage, kids, ext. its something I want someday, and I surely don't want to wait years for a divorce to be done when he hasn't even started...and also it worries me after knowing for the first 10 months at least of the first year they were separated that he was pining away wanting to make his marriage work that maybe he isnt quite over the relationship with her yet (even though he says he is) and that is why he hasn't filed...
So what say you ladies (besides I shouldn't have started dating him to begin with)since its not been long give him a little more time? explain why I would like him to get going with the divorce putting the ball in his court and giving him a timeline?? or just explain why I am not ok with the divorce not even being started yet and tell him when he is ready and has at least started or finished with the divorce then give me a call?
So far knowing this group I am suprised at how tame most of the comments are, thank you ladies very much. Althought I am not sure what I will wake up to if anything in the morning!