The other night my DH was bugging about sex. I was on my period (which since having kids is really painful at times, like it was the other night). We hadn't seen each other in a little over a week, and he had made it clear that he was horny halfway through that week (no big surprise there) but I was just really not in the mood to take care of his needs by hand. He got all pissy and a fight ensued. And the whole time I'm wanting to ask him "can't you just take care of it yourself!?"
I didn't, but I just don't get why he gets so frustrated. He's always denied masturbating, but I've never believed him, yet in 17 years I've never caught him either. And then he gets so frustrated when he's horny and I'm not in the mood (which doesn't happen very often, usually if I'm not in the mood I'll still be friendly). And I just don't get it.
And about not putting out the other night, there is more to it than just not being in the mood. We used to have sex when I had my visitor and he just wouldn't leave me alone. But a few years ago he made a comment (long story shore and straight to the point) about how gross it is. So since then I rarely help him out because I always remember what he said.
So, are there really guys out there, with very healthy libidos, who don't take care of it himself, like, ever?