what would you do if you found out your dh had father a baby while you were dating?
If it was when we were dating and he didn't know about the kid until now, we'd get past it. We had issues when we were dating the first couple years.
If he knew about the kid and didn't tell me, now we have a problem. First off, you don't ignore your kids regardless of how they were conceived, and secondly, you don't keep that big of a secret from your spouse.
Not much to do....either except it or move on
It would depend on IF we were supposed to be exclusive or not....kwim
we werent married and couldve been on a break
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