She told me in the past she never wants me around her kids. The court papers say the kids cannot spend the night cause bf and I are not married. Our kids cannot come over because the visits should be about him and his kids. So our kids cannot play with their half siblings. She has told these kids that their dad replaced them. She had the oldest lie and say I beat him with a stick which was later proven to be a lie in court. I haven't seen or talked to these kids in years. I want to but she won't let me.
Now all of a sudden they are my responsibility to support. Maybe she should do what I did and get a job.
She knew this could happen. She had been warned months ago when his condition was not improving. He saved up a trust for his kids. It was 1000. He had his cs modified and the court said he only had to pay 58 a month. She had a choice. Take the new cs amount or the trust. She chose the trust. She blew through the trust in a month.