I have no idea how to handle this situation so I figured I'd ask your advice. Okay, so I have a best friend, whom I've been best friends with for 14 years. She is my everything and we tell each other everything and she's always been there for me. The only thing I never agreed with is what she does in her personal life, but it's really not my business. Here is the problem. She is NOT married, but she IS still with the father of her two children. She lives with him and they both work. She has been dealing with an ex boyfriend whom she has known for 9 years. She isn't sleeping with him- but they talk ALL the time, almost constantly, and she is wanting to leave her boyfriend to go live with this guy. Heres where the issue comes in.. He's a major cheater, always has been.
When she met him 9 years ago, he was with another woman (but it was on HIS terms) meaning he had his own place- would go stay with his "girlfriend" for 5 nights a week and then on his "off nights" he would see my best friend and however many other girls he saw.
She swears up and down he has changed and is wanting to totally commit to her. but my question is, why does he all of a sudden want to commit to her now? why not before?
She asked me her opinion and I have no words...