I think a lot about why cheating happens and it has come to my attention the wife is in a bad spot. No matter how loving, kind, supportive and sexual you are. Your relationship as a couple will always be one that includes the hard stuff, finances, home repairs, kids, schooling, disagreements, family drama and all the other honest fair but hard work that comes with having a marriage and family.
You will never be able to compare to a woman who is fun, out going, childless (even if only when together). A woman that has no chores for him to do, bills to chat about or obligations for him to be at.. She is the dating you, all the fun you had before the complicated stuff and without the responsibility.
At the end of the day it doesn't matter if what you ask is normal, understandable and fair. If he compares you to even just 1 other woman you will look like more work.
It kind of makes me wonder if you should ever get married and if you do are you more than likely doomed?? Not because you married a bad person or you are a bad person yourself but because easier is well easy and everyone else SEEMS easy in comparison;)
CJEMMEMOMMY- didn't mean to be anon