i have cut tons of people out, my mother, my sister, my 2 aunts, also cut out my husbands grand parents! do I regret it? no! if my mom would be nice to me all the time then i would regret cutting her out but shes the only one, i cant stand family who make you feel shitty
most of my family is cut off. my dad and sisters deleted and blocked me on facebook, so when i changed my number, i didn't give it to anyone. my dad was putting my kids in danger, and my sisters (one of whom is a mother!) took his side without even hearing what was going on, and cussed me out. anyone that would have leaked information to them was cut off - just on facebook, though. i hid my information, but they are still able to send messages. no one has reached out.
that was a year and a half ago. i have less drama, less guilt trips, less being called names. it's absolutely wonderful.
i did actually call my mom a few months ago, and we talked for quite a while. she respects my decisions, even if she doesn't agree with them. i send her a text every once in a while.
no regrets. well, only that i wish i had done it sooner.
Quoting iwanabemomie:Sadly enough, yes I have. My dad family is nuts and there is nothing but drama that surrounds them. I met them all 12 years ago but recently just said to hell with them. My dad can't solve shit because he's in prison. I just gave up on what I thought was family.
I was 23 at the time and I cut my parents out, no regrets.
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