My son just brought his friend home. I guess she called him and said she had acted stupidly today while hiking with some friends and got really drunk. She really just needed some time to sober up before she went home and she didnt want to be driving her car. I am kind of torn on what to do. On one hand I try to think as ONLY a mother and think I should tell them ASAP but on the other hand I think of it as a human and how we all make mistakes. If it was my own daughter I don't wouldnt be very angry if she called and said "i fucked up, i need help". I just dont know.
I am just looking for opinions not to be bashed. I have never been in a situation.
ETA: she is 17