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Would you divorce if..

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Your husband contstantly picked at you, berates, has screaming fits in front of your children (not often but enough to impact little ones), lets you know that you aren't doing a good enough job as a wife/mother, is constantly suspicious, emotionally unavailable?

Couples counseling has happened, several times throughout your 12 year marriage, he improves for a few months and then reverts back to his miserable self.

Would you divorce?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:33 AM
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outtamymynd
by Ruby Member on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:34 AM
Yes I would. Imagine living your whole life that way. Not a pretty picture.
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Sassy762
by 200 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:35 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:37 AM
1 mom liked this
Quoting Sassy762:




Today has been a terrible day, but this made me laugh!
Elayna90
by Gold Member on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:38 AM
Yes I would. It is not something that I can tolerate.
Sassy762
by 200 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:39 AM

Good.....it was supposed to BUT I am serious..........

Hopefully tomorrow will be better...

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Sassy762:




Today has been a terrible day, but this made me laugh!


My3LuVs83
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:40 AM
Si.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:40 AM
Quoting outtamymynd:

Yes I would. Imagine living your whole life that way. Not a pretty picture.



It would be torture. I've stayed this long because I wanted my children to have an intact family, but at this point I think it's doing more harm than good.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:40 AM
If I was no longer happy, and felt I put in my best effort I would leave.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:41 AM

Yes, I've lived with a lot, but that would put me over the line! My dh has spent a lot of time emotionally unavailable, but he has been kind and has never berated me.

Let me just say that I take marriage very seriously and don't really approve of divorce. However, abuse--yes this is abuse---affects the kids, as well as, Mom, in such a negative fashion that getting away from it is paramount.

copasetic1
by Gold Member on Jul. 16, 2013 at 3:41 AM

 Yes. Yes. Yes.

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