I don't have any daughters just sons but I still have to worry. If my sond came to me and said their girlfriend was pregnant and they were sure it was their baby, then I would have a long discussion with her parents and if they didn't want her in their home anymore then she would come live with me. i would make my son get a job, finish school or stay there till he was 18, help set up a bank account and teach them budgeting, I would charge them rent so they would know how it felt to pay bills but the money would go into a seperate account and would be used to help them get into a place of their own once they reached the legal age. I am so shocked to see so many closed moinds in todays society. This is not the 50's people!! Girls start having CONSENTUAL SEX as early as 12 and are having babies young. Do you want to screw your child for life by making their lives as shitty as you can or do you want to see them grow and mature into responsible parents/adults?? The damage is done so teach them to pick up the pieces, hold their head high and do what is right. Even if my sons didn't stay in a relationship with the mom, they still will have that woman in his life for the rest of his because they created life together. Teach your kids about safe sex, the reactions to their actions and make them stand up and take responsibility for them. SMDH
That is horrible, no calls rape on another child when they were both willing. Your a horrible person if you want to ruin a little boys life because "they" decided to have sex. I am proud of that little boy to take resonsability for his actions. Alll i can say is if he is really serious let him move in but they sleep in separate rooms. Explain another baby that young is wrong and it wont happen under your roof. Plus there is tricks in the world to see if they left the rooms.Plus idk about other moms but i wake up to just a tiny floor creak. Sooooo use you best judgement on letting him more in. But take pride in that he wants to be there. Most kids and even 20 year old men walk out on their kids. But never call rape when your kid was just as willing.
No way in hell and his parents would be notified of thier sons little fuck up.
I'd say no, but you can get a job and provide for my daughter and her baby. Maybe when you turn 18, and when you prove to me to be responsible and devoted to her and your child, I'll think about it.
Hell NO! How do you think she got that way in the 1st place. Yes I know she obviously can't get preg AGAIN while she preg but one day she won't be. Hell NO. Let him stay somewhere else
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