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What are the rules of separation?

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DH and I are separating.

Aside from the financial and the literal details, how is this done? What exactly are the rules? We seem to have different opinions on what this involves.

He thinks we should still be intimate and basically lived a married life apart. He sees us dating and being happy that way. And he talks about buying new toys (playstation, motorcycle) that we can't afford. It's almost like a permanent vacation he's imagining with all the benefits of marriage instead of a temporary situation with a to-be-determined resolution.

We should probably be going to counseling but with running two households there is no way we could afford it.

I want our main goal to be to work things out. But I just don't know what rules and bounderies should be placed in order to facilitate a positive outcome.

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2013 at 10:21 AM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 10:22 AM

Here is a link to another post I made. It explains the WHY we are separating.

LINK

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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 10:26 AM

BUMP!

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