I don't want her to be the god mother. There is another friend of mine who would make a wonderful god mother and we want my cousin and her husband to be the guardians if something should happen.
My friend truly is a real Christian. She's not one to say she is and then justify her actions. She is someone even I talk to about Christianity and she's someone that I would feel comfortable if my children went to her concerning Christianity.
My cousin and her husband have been married 20 years and have a 17 year old whos a wonderful kid. She and I have the same parenting styles and they are financially stable enough to raise more children if they needed too (they wanted more than one but she has fertility issues) plus they have a solid stable marriage.
My friend is none of the above. How do I tell her she isn't going to be the go mother or guardian?