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I walked in on my son watching porn

Anonymous
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He is 17. ETA: I did knock but clearly it was not loud enough. I had just talked to him 20 mins before saying I would bring the laundry up to fold. It was on his computer screen and I dropped the basket of laundry I was carrying. I am pretty sure he was masterbating but i closed the door really fast and said "I want to talk to you when you are done doing whatever you are doing" 

The first thing we talked about is how if he is spending time doing personal things he should lock the door. The next thing we talked about is how it is illegal for him to be watching porn and how it was made for adults. Then we talked about how porn is something that most people have looked at and many people watch it often but it is not an accurate representation of what most sex is like. (we have had the sex talk several times already)

It was an awkward conversation. I am sure it was not the first time he has watched it and I know it is pretty normal for him to do that at that age but I at least wanted to talk about it with him. It was still very awkward though. I can't believe he didn't lock the door! 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:14 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:15 PM

Did you knock?

ROBIN-C
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:15 PM

I would've left it at lock the door when you're doing your thing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:15 PM


Yeah but clearly not loud enough :/

Quoting Anonymous:

Did you knock?



Anonandon
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:15 PM
You don't knock?
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kailu1835
by Ruby Member on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:16 PM
Awkward! Lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:17 PM
At a17 i will be knocking.
Sweetest_Britt
by on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:17 PM
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He's 17....you're lucky this is the first time you've walked in on him....ROFL

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:17 PM


I did but clearly it wasnt loud enough. I was bringing his laundry to him. We had just talked about how I was going to bring it up for him to fold like 20 minutes ago 

Quoting Anonandon:

You don't knock?



petitekatie
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:18 PM
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Thank you for letting him know its not an accurate representation. Most men don't realize that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 16, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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I feel that is important. I wouldn't tell him to stop but I don't want him thinking that is what sex is like. 

He has said he has not had sex and I don't think he is lying (i know he could be though so I am not 100% sure)

Quoting petitekatie:

Thank you for letting him know its not an accurate representation. Most men don't realize that.



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