My boyfriend has kids. He doesn't have any with me but he has kids. So me and the mother of the kids got into it a couple of times. Now she says that as long as we are together she won't let him see the kids. Our state gives her sole custody. Now, true enough, he does not do anything financially for the kids but he loves them and wants to be in their lives but she is adamant that as long as me and him are together he can't see them. I told him he could leave and it would be no hard feelings but he insists that he would rather be with me even if it means he won't be in his kids lives. So what do I do. Do I make him leave anyway so that he can be in the kids lives or do I stay with him.