First off I love my husband. I do I'm not coming on here to complain about him. I just don't know what to do. He's an electrician a journeyman. We barely make it every month he makes 19 an hour he only works 40 hours. He can take his masters and work for himself but he hasnt yet he's been able to take his masters for at least 3 years now. He doesn't worry about money or the bills he ses he does worry and he's doing what he can, but in my opinion he's not. No we are not on aide either, but I do stay home. I told him I would work weekends but he wasn't allowed to pawn the kids off on his sisters if he had to work if I got a job he had to take care of them so no over time. He could just make so much money doing it on his own example last Saturday his boss asked him to go do an ac unit it took him an hour and a 1/2 maybe his boss said they pay me cash you can keep it when your done. He got 170. If he had gone threw payroll overtime pay is 30 an hour he would have made 45. I just don't want to bitch at him, but I don't know if anything else will work.