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should i pay these bills?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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My dh left me.i dont want to talk about it again just know that i have done nothing to deserve this and he has been treating me like shit. he was cheating and now lives with her. i have been living in our apt for one month without him. the cable is 2 months past due, lights three months past due. so far i payed half the last months rent and a 60 dollar trash bill. all the bills are in his name. 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:03 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:04 PM

 I wouldn't.

areyouatroll
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:04 PM
Ummmm no you should move with everything in your name so he can't screw you over.
firespurity
by Ruby Member on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:04 PM
Only if it can affect your credit..
AuntieM
by Gold Member on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:05 PM
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Well, if you don't pay them you won't have those services anymore.
Anonandon
by on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:05 PM
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 Unless you like living in the dark, I'd suggest you pay the electric bill.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:06 PM

im moving out this month on my own i dont need things in his name anymore

Quoting AuntieM:

Well, if you don't pay them you won't have those services anymore.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:06 PM

Well, unfortunately, if nobody pays the bills then all of your services will be shut off and if nobody pays the rest of the rent then you'll be evicted.  I'm so sorry you are going through this.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:07 PM
No! I would make him pay them. Can you switch everything to your name?
Amybelle
by Ruby Member on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:07 PM

do you want to be evicted, without electric, cable & what-not....?


ittyprincess604
by Ruby Member on Jul. 17, 2013 at 9:07 PM
Unless you want to be evicted, pay the rent. Electric night be smart as well
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