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Just because someone is SAHM doesn't mean they are a devoted mom

Posted by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:43 PM
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In my own personal experience, I have found both working and SAHM can suck, are lazy, shitty parenting, drug or alcohol abuse so forth.

I will say however, when I ran my program for over 20 years, it was the WORKING MOMS that found time to devote and volunteer time to time.... The SAHM were lazy and always had lame excuses.

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I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.  

It's wrong to be a bully with one exception. It's ok to bully those you THINK are a bully.

by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:43 PM
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Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:44 PM
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Maybe your program was boring.
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LectioDivina
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:45 PM
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Hmm...

Different from my experiences.

I'm in quite a few social clubs made up of mostly stay at home moms and it's almost all charity work most of the time...

thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:45 PM
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if it was boring I doubt the working moms would have contributed (especially during show time help with costumes, hair, organizing, set  up, take down) ticket admission so forth.

Thats right the SAHM always claim they are too overwhelmed and BUSY while the WORKING MOMS are volunteering, working, tending to their own kids and the SAHM kids...

Quoting Nicoleb9:

Maybe your program was boring.


~~~~~         =^..^=        ~~~~~
I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.  

It's wrong to be a bully with one exception. It's ok to bully those you THINK are a bully.

seemommyrun
by Sue daNim on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:46 PM
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 What kind of program was it, if you don't mind?

Also, I'm a SAHM and sometimes I'm a little lazy.  I think I've earned it though, because for the previous 13 years I had no opportunity to just veg.  It's kina nice :)

LectioDivina
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:46 PM
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Most of the pta is made up of stay at home mothers at my kids school also...

thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:46 PM

well ya sure i mean i fyou join clubs that target SAHM you may see things from a different perspective. Just like if I joined clubs that target mostly college students or working moms or...

Quoting LectioDivina:

Hmm...

Different from my experiences.

I'm in quite a few social clubs made up of mostly stay at home moms and it's almost all charity work most of the time...


~~~~~         =^..^=        ~~~~~
I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.  

It's wrong to be a bully with one exception. It's ok to bully those you THINK are a bully.

skittlefart
by on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:47 PM
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Yeah I've seen this as well. Hell it even is me a few days here and there. 

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thetrollcat
by Meow on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:47 PM

Not in my town, they are working moms. The SAHM are generally volunteers running booths or whatever. The real leaders/directors are usually almost always WORKING moms

Quoting LectioDivina:

Most of the pta is made up of stay at home mothers at my kids school also...


~~~~~         =^..^=        ~~~~~
I'm not the cat lady type. I'm more like an actual cat. I want affection when I want it and on my own terms. The rest of the time I want to claw out your eyes and piss in your shoes.  

It's wrong to be a bully with one exception. It's ok to bully those you THINK are a bully.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:48 PM
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This group is full of lazy sahms. They admit it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 18, 2013 at 12:48 PM
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Right? My SIL calls herself a SAHM. What she is, is a drug addicted alcoholic who can't be bothered with little details, like getting her kid up, or feeding her. 

My niece is almost 11. The only reason she makes it to school is my MIL showing up to do it for her when she can. A usually misses about a month of "sick days" every year. It was worse when she was younger and couldn't do it herself. 


And what's worse is CPS has had an active open case since 2004 and has never done anything to remove her. 

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