my son is still a teen and has 2 toddlers.....

he's only 19,he moved with his dad 3 years ago...and his dad jumps from place to place because of work,well for the last 3 years he's been in hawaii,my ds told me he had a gf,she was from scottland. well today i just found out he had kids with this girl,2 boys and shes pregnant again(the boys are 10 months apart,they both turn 2 this year). why his dad never told me he was having children is beyond me,why ds never told me is beyond me also,im really hurt that i never knew this was going on.....other then the kids idk what else is going on with him,idk if he has a job or if he's living with his dad anymore or anything like that......iv tried calling and ds wont tell me anything,so iv been saving up to fly over there in a couple months.....i dont even know what to think right now........

[anitarichman]

 What did you do to piss him off that he kept his little family a secret from you? 

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting SageAdvice:

 Right! but he's now 19 and it's his business and he must have reasons for keeping you unaware of what's going on in his life! Seems to me if you had any kind of loving - caring - motherly relationship with your SON he would have told you before now! That says a lot about YOU.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting SageAdvice:

 Maybe cause it's not really any of your business now.

are you fucking kidding me? he was barely 16 when he got her pregnant the first time

 

consdering he told no one except his dad its not me but keep on keeping on

[katemckenzie]

It's not her business to know she's had grandchildren since her son was 16?

Quoting SageAdvice:

 Maybe cause it's not really any of your business now.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting anitarichman:

 What did you do to piss him off that he kept his little family a secret from you? 

i didnt do anything

[hburnette3]

yes it is! He is her son and they are her grandchildren! If they are not on speaking terms he should have at least dropped her a letter or email.

Quoting SageAdvice:

 Maybe cause it's not really any of your business now.

[Anonymous 4]

So have you not seen your son since he was 16?

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Quoting Anonymous:

So have you not seen your son since he was 16?

i saw him every other month until my hours got cut,but i would buy him tickets to fly here instead of me going there

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