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I cant believe what I just found! DF and Casual encounters...*edit*4

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

So I got on DF computer to search on Craigslist for baby stuff and as im typing it the URL bar suggests a recent page for casual encounters! So of course i click it. Highlighted (like he's clicked on it) is M4W, W4W, and W4MW. 

Im so confused. He's at work right now. I snooped two weeks ago on his FB cause he got a message and i glanced over and he flipped out and stopped dressing LO to move his lap top. The only thing i read was something about a strip club so i later snooped. That was just some bs guy talk but i found where he messaged a girl and was talking to her saying he was so horny and blah blah blah... But there wasnt too much of a converstation cause she didnt seem too interested. At that point we were going through some shit and he claims thats why he must had said it but he "doesnt remember" and now this. 

Idk wtf to think right now. Today he asked me what i would do if i found he cheated. He's always been amazing to me and before we dated alls i ever heard was great things but now idk. 

*Edit* He was supposed to be home at 12:30 and at 12:16 said he was going to be really late because the place was a wreck.  (He works at a restaurant/bar.) And he only has 1% left on his phone. He text me at like 7-8ish and said his phone was starting to die so i asked him to cut it off til he left work because i dont like him driving with no phone incase something happens. 30 miutes later he's on FB via mobile. 


*Edit2* 2 1/2 hours later still not home but yet still texted me to say otw when his phone had 1% at 12...
*Edit3* So he got home about 3 and still had 1% left. He said his friend was supposed to text me and tell me thanks for letting DF take him home but I never got that text. Also he said the place was a wreck thats why he would be so late but he said that there was 3 servers which is more than normal so he didn't make many tips so why would it take that long if there was more people to help? Then this morning I asked him to message his cousin to see if she wanted some baby stuff because she's due any day now and when I asked if I could see what he wrote to make sure he told her the right stuff he just shut his laptop and sat it on the floor. Im outside smoking and about to confront him when I go inside.

*Edit4* So I confronted him and he said it was so long ago that he doesn't remember and how am I going to ask him something like that. "If I just asked someone a question like why would they be honest and admit to talking to people on CL? " How do you say something like that? He was just furious that I would even ask that. Etc. So basically we just got in a huge fight and then go in another huge fight later about something different. I want to feel like im not going to keep finding shit but then ill just be wondering if he's just hiding it better. Sigh.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:02 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:38 AM

Little one

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:40 AM

Im sorry that I laughed but krama is a cruel mistress.


Quoting Anonymous:

My fiance did that same stuff! and i always found emails on fb and craigslist ads tryna hook up with girls. Even the day we got out the hospital n brought our daughter home when she was born he was emailing girls... then he died in a carwreck 4 days after we got engaged guess where he was coming from?. he got a hooker! ... And thats all true. smh



KRIZZ25
by Silver Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:40 AM
he is cheating//no will u put up wth it or not.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:42 AM
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So you know he's messaged a girl telling her that he's horny.  You guys aren't even married yet and he's messaging a girl saying htat....  You seriously think this is going to end well?  

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:44 AM

Its just hard to think about.  I just dont understand.


Quoting Anonymous:

So you know he's messaged a girl telling her that he's horny.  You guys aren't even married yet and he's messaging a girl saying htat....  You seriously think this is going to end well?  



liels898
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:44 AM
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Break up with him and move on. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:45 AM
Very odd that he'd ask you what you'd do if he cheated after you found that stuff on his laptop.
It screams red flag to me.
KaylinC03
by Platinum Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:45 AM
Never mind on my previous reply. Yes I would worry, lol. Something is going on. Sorry. :(

Quoting Anonymous:

I mean its not just the CL thing so everything is totally normal too?



Quoting KaylinC03:

I wouldn't worry. 




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:46 AM


What don't you understand.  He wants to have sex with people other than you.  He probably already has.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Its just hard to think about.  I just dont understand.


Quoting Anonymous:

So you know he's messaged a girl telling her that he's horny.  You guys aren't even married yet and he's messaging a girl saying htat....  You seriously think this is going to end well?  





Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:47 AM
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As much as i hate to say it. you're right! Listen to your intuition! Dont blow off the little stuff til youre sure its nothing. ive been there soooo many times. id feel so dumb and bitchy for being so suspicious but with a lot of snooping and just paying attention i was never wrong


Quoting Anonymous:

Im sorry that I laughed but krama is a cruel mistress.



Quoting Anonymous:

My fiance did that same stuff! and i always found emails on fb and craigslist ads tryna hook up with girls. Even the day we got out the hospital n brought our daughter home when she was born he was emailing girls... then he died in a carwreck 4 days after we got engaged guess where he was coming from?. he got a hooker! ... And thats all true. smh





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