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Why are you so insecure?

Anonymous
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I see so many posts that say something about their DH being out with friends and he didn't answer his phone.... Or he isn't allowed to go out without me and so on.

why are you so insecure? If he has never given you a reason to not trust him why do you insist on being so controlling? If you don't trust him why be with him? Are you taking out a prior relationship on him? 

Why isn't he allowed to have some time to himself without constantly checking in with you? 

I just don't get feeling the need to control a grown man! 

I would never allow that from a man! 

Not talking about men who go out all the time, but the men that go out on occasion. Which is very healthy in my opinion. 

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:34 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:36 AM

Well, I know this post wasn't about my husband and me. *walks out*

Mommy2b2many
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:37 AM

not about me and my dh either...

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Quoting Anonymous:

Well, I know this post wasn't about my husband and me. *walks out*


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:39 AM
My husband is a homebody. It kinda freaks me out lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:43 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

My husband is a homebody. It kinda freaks me out lol

Well at least you have no need to worry I guess.... But that would get on my nerves too,lol! I would be like "get your ass out of the house and go do something! Get a hobby! " oh wait imdid do that! Ex was that way and thought I was his only source of entertain,ent and when bored he would follow me around the house! It got old! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:44 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

Well, I know this post wasn't about my husband and me. *walks out*

Lol, well I doubt anyone that it does apply to will admit it. 

kagegirl
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:46 AM

I WISH so would go out every now and then. I do. We don't dictate rules like that, we just sort of stopped what we felt would be disrespectful when we got together. Although, SO has never been one to go to strip clubs, I really wouldn't care if he went to one. I don't give a shit about porn either. I DO mind him being around certain friends because they are also friends with an ex of his who is pretty notorious for sleeping with ANYONE despite the fact that she is married and he did carry on with her right up until we got together, but I still check myself. He has never given me a reason not to trust him, and I have never given him a reason not to trust me. 

punksjs
by Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:47 AM

My husband has a history that ,makes me not trust him. It's very hard and we are trying to work thru it but its not working very well. It's hard to gain that trust back.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:48 AM
My ex was out all the time. So I expected it with my husband, but he likes to be at home. I've asked him why he doesn't like to go out more and he says he loves to just relax at home with a drink, a good movie, and his family. I can't complain lol


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Quoting Anonymous:

My husband is a homebody. It kinda freaks me out lol

Well at least you have no need to worry I guess.... But that would get on my nerves too,lol! I would be like "get your ass out of the house and go do something! Get a hobby! " oh wait imdid do that! Ex was that way and thought I was his only source of entertain,ent and when bored he would follow me around the house! It got old! 


4_little_angels
by Platinum Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:49 AM
I wish dh had some damn friends that would take him out lol
Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Jul. 19, 2013 at 12:49 AM
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 If I were insecure I would sit back and accept anything my husband wanted to do with no objection, even if I felt differently.....I demand certain behaviors from the people in my life.  They're free to move on, but if they choose to stay, it will be my way and I will be respected.

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