Okay my friend is dating this "girl" and she use to be a dude
She use to be a dude. I am okay with that and to each their own. She is a friend and it was her choice. but the guy does not know and she has not told him yet. he is really starting to like her. the thing is he talks to me about her and says he could see him marrying her and her being the mother of his children. I told her all this and she said that she was not going to tell him because he is really religious and she knows he will dump her. i asked her about the kids and she said she was just going to tell him after they were married that she could not have kids and she just found out. He has become a good Friend and is a really great guy. i do not think he deserves to be kept out of the dark about this. It really is not fair. I am kind of thinking about telling him but i know it will end my friendship with her. Just not sure what to do, but she is not being fair at all.