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Okay my friend is dating this "girl" and she use to be a dude

Anonymous
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She use to be a dude. I am okay with that and to each their own. She is a friend and it was her choice. but the guy does not know and she has not told him yet. he is really starting to like her. the thing is he talks to me about her and says he could see him marrying her and her being the mother of his children. I told her all this and she said that she was not going to tell him because he is really religious and she knows he will dump her. i asked her about the kids and she said she was just going to tell him after they were married that she could not have kids  and she just found out. He has become a good Friend and is a really great guy. i do not think he deserves to be kept out of the dark about this. It really is not fair. I am kind of thinking about telling him but i know it will end my friendship with her. Just not sure what to do, but she is not being fair at all.

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:42 PM
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tinakinakins
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:43 PM
5 moms liked this

Tell her that either she tells him or you do.

Love060708kids
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:44 PM

This.

Quoting tinakinakins:

Tell her that either she tells him or you do.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:44 PM


This.

Quoting tinakinakins:

Tell her that either she tells him or you do.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:45 PM
None of your business. Don't say anything.
kearaloves1
by Silver Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:45 PM

oh my gosh im not going to even touch this! ask god what you should do!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:45 PM
Whoa, uh, I think you should tell him. That's just wrong.
DannieLou
by Mockingjay on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:46 PM

 He deserves to know! I agree with the first poster, either she tells him or you do, PERIOD!

WaffleHead
by on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:46 PM
It's not your business
NewMamaBoo
by Platinum Member on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:46 PM

Do the right thing. He needs to know

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:47 PM
I would tell him. It would hurtfull if he found out too late. Plus he could sue her for emotional damages. If she likes the guy she should tell him, but if not you have a right as a human being to but in.
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