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would this hurt your feelings if your family did this ?

Anonymous
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today i went over to my parents house around 12 to see what they were doing, i tried calling and once i got there they were gone. my brother who is home from college for the summer was gone too. i found out they all went swimming at this private pool we all belong to without me and my son. it kind of hurt my feelings. i feel llike maybe i am overreacting? but i cant help it did hurt my feelings. my mom finally called back and said i can come but by the time now i get home, dressed and get there, i have to work by 6. would anyone elses feeling be hurt? i am pretty much a single mom right now i am not married and the rest of my family lives in minneapolis, mn and i am by chicago, il. so it does bother me.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:37 PM

Have  you & DS gone before with them?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:38 PM
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No because I don't need to be involved in everything my family does.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:39 PM
yes


Quoting Sassy762:

Have  you & DS gone before with them?


Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:41 PM

HMMMM Did anything happen the last time...like with DS misbehaving???

I ak because...while I love my kids and grandkids......I really don't like going to the beach with them. They become whiny butts over everything, lol

Quoting Anonymous:

yes


Quoting Sassy762:

Have  you & DS gone before with them?



mommybug77
by on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:41 PM
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No I'm not 12 and living at home. It's not like they left you behind, I find it odd that you even question it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:43 PM
no he is good i dont have issues with him in public he is 5 and out of that stage so to speak, like crabby or fits


Quoting Sassy762:

HMMMM Did anything happen the last time...like with DS misbehaving???

I ak because...while I love my kids and grandkids......I really don't like going to the beach with them. They become whiny butts over everything, lol

Quoting Anonymous:

yes





Quoting Sassy762:

Have  you & DS gone before with them?





kikibix
by Platinum Member on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:44 PM
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You don't live with your family.  You are an indpendant individual.  Neither you nor your family should be consulting with each other over every move/decision you guys make.  I wouldn't be offended in the least.

2Sparrows4ever
by on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:44 PM
no, it wouldn't, I would prefer they didn't ask me to join them to begin with
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:45 PM
ya i might be overreacting, i just dont have close family and that causes me to feel kind of lonely i wish i had family i was close with. maybe thats why


Quoting mommybug77:

No I'm not 12 and living at home. It's not like they left you behind, I find it odd that you even question it.

Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jul. 20, 2013 at 2:45 PM

Well that is all I have now, lol Just ask them if its that big of a deal

Quoting Anonymous:

no he is good i dont have issues with him in public he is 5 and out of that stage so to speak, like crabby or fits


Quoting Sassy762:

HMMMM Did anything happen the last time...like with DS misbehaving???

I ak because...while I love my kids and grandkids......I really don't like going to the beach with them. They become whiny butts over everything, lol

Quoting Anonymous:

yes





Quoting Sassy762:

Have  you & DS gone before with them?






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