Out of all of my husband's brothers and sisters, we are the only ones that got married first then planned for a baby. We conceived about 8 months after marrying. Pretty much all of his sisters were knocked up on their wedding day. Most of my friends were as well. I am very proud of my husband and I for going about it the right way. I feel my daughter will be happier in life knowing that she was very much wanted and planned and not an accident or the only reason mommy and daddy got married. We are planning on trying for a sibling for her in 3-4 months when my birth control is no longer effective. His other sister just found out she's pregnant again too so likely all my daughters cousins will be "Irish twins" aka about 9-10 months apart in age.