Just little added info
For everyone saying our relationship won't last,well it has for 19 yrs now.
His nieces and nephews call me aunt.although I don't feel like their aunt I have never said anything.
Blood has nothing to do with anything.If they were good caring people it would be easy to accept them,but they are not.
Why would I love his daughter like he does? We seen her twice a yr,not really a lot of time to bond
Just because you have good in laws doesn't mean every one does